Category: Summer

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Summer Statistics

It's not the end of summer; it's the beginning of fall. I haven't written in a few weeks, because on top of travel, this is my BUSY season, as my "real" job is helping high school seniors with their college application essays. But that doesn't mean I didn't squeeze in some serious summer emptynestering. Tom and I ...

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I’m blaming everything on menopause. It’s just easier that way.

I was the one who thought I'd never go through menopause. Of course, I knew I would one day stop ovulating, but I had a feeling all those ugly symptoms my friends would bemoan about were not going to affect me. Every time a girlfriend would grab paper within her reach and create a makeshift ...

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Hot Sweaty Mess

Summer in the city is comprised of many short jaunts from one air conditioned venue to another, intermingled with cold showers. It hasn't stopped me from getting out, and doing interesting and delicious things, but I have to admit my steps are down and my Arro, Uber, and Lyft payments are way up. I tell ...

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Shall We Play A Game?

I married into a family of game players. Many of my best summer memories were spent around the dining room table at "The Hideout" in Plum Beach, Rhode Island playing Tripoli and Contact Rummy with my in-laws. The games would go on into the early hours and would be discussed at the breakfast table the ...

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One Perfect Day

Perfect days don't just happen; at least they don't to me. I've tried to be spontaneous, I really have. And there are times when the stars have aligned, and magic happens, but usually, for me, spontaneity ends up in a bunch of near misses. The fabulous art fair that I walked two blocks east of, ...

Cake and Ice Cream

It was my 53rd birthday last week, and more than any birthday in the past 25 years, I feel uncertain of what the future holds. It's been exactly one year since we moved into the city as empty nesters and what an incredible year it's been. But I can't help thinking; what's next? I spent ...

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My Summer To Do List

When my daughter was going into junior year, I found a handwritten list in colored magic markers in her bedroom that said "Summer To Do List." Of course, I swiped it and put it in my box of treasures for safe keeping, but I remember it had some really adorable things on it, like going ...